I am in charge of the decorating and theme for my  mother-in-laws 80th Surprise Birthday Party. One of my  favorite ideas is to create a "Precious Thoughts" Book. I have asked family members to write a special thought or memory they have of my mother-in-law.  I will compile all  in a book, with photos included.  Various photos of her   as the outside cover. This takes time so be sure to request your "memories/thoughts" in advance. You can get  the book bound at a copy/store like Kinko's.  I am excited  about this project! She can keep it on her coffee table  and take a peek whenever she wants.